Just about everyone I’ve encountered recently—or so it seems—has an ax or two to grind with their boss. Have you ever stopped to consider whether it's you and not your manager? Just in case it hasn't occurred to you, perhaps a bit of mirror gazing is in order. If you see yourself on this list of, "The Boss's Top Ten Challenging People," it might be time for you to make some adjustments. Of course, first, you have to see yourself.