Leadership Caffeine: Warning! Your Words About Change are Falling on Cynical Ears

image of a coffee cupEven the most credible of leaders have to step up their game when it comes to talking about and promoting change on their teams and in their organizations. 

You can trust that a good number of the people doing the heavy lifting inside of your organization have developed a case of cynicism on talk of change emanating from the higher-ups.

They’ve consumed too many “flavor of the month” programs and developed heartburn when the programs died in mid-stream. They’ve watched people in your role come and go, and they no longer hear the siren call or pay much attention to the slogans and signs.

Can you blame them? If they wait a few minutes, this too shall pass, and in spite of their positive view of you, people have been conditioned to wait until the noise dies down and the focus turns back to getting the work done. They also know that you’ll likely move on to something bigger or different before too long.

For some leaders, the institutionalized and individual resistance to change is extremely frustrating and vexing. One leader offered to me, “I’m told that I’m credible, people have responded well to my leadership, I don’t pump sunshine or doom and gloom, yet people are dragging their feet on this new program. I know that it means doing new things and that can be frightening, but why aren’t people more excited and supportive?”

What’s a leader to do?

7 Helpful Steps to Get Started on the Right Foot Talking About Change:

1. Expect Resistance. Start from the assertion that you will run into a naturally occurring level of personal and cultural resistance, regardless of the how much people like and respect you.

2. Construct a Message for Real People. Lead with the facts. Explain the situation. Include your assessment. Avoid corporate and consultant-speak. Openly acknowledge the risks and unknowns.

3. Don’t Pitch the Solution…Share the Problem. Ask for help finding the solution. There’s a profound difference on how people process “here’s the answer,” versus “here’s the problem and we need to find the answer together.”

4. Beware the “Town Hall” Trap. Whether you are leading a company or a team, your inclination is to pull everyone together and to “present” your case for change. Senior leaders in particular fall victim to assuming that because something has been shared far and wide that it is now fact and reality. It’s good to share but there’s no “one-and-done” big group style of communication that cuts through the individual resistance to change. The large meeting is one step of many required for success.

5. Make Your Case One-on-One. The optimal level of dialogue is always one to one. Yes, it’s difficult. It’s also essential. Whether it’s you or those members of your change-coalition, the dialogue (not monologue) must be focused at the individual level.

6. Keep the Monologue Locked in the Closet. The faster people perceive that you are genuinely interested in their ideas and even their challenges to your own ideas, the faster the initiative will build momentum. Listen, acknowledge, adjust based on good input and share the adjustment.  And just keep doing it.

7. Model the Behavior. Do as you say…and do it very visibly and genuinely.  Nothing shoots a change initiative in the rear-end faster than your words and your actions not matching. The do must match the tell.

The Bottom-Line for Now:

Change is inevitable in our world and intuitively, we all know and accept this reality. However, don’t discount the challenges you will face in gaining support for your message on the need to change.You’ve had ample time to process on it, but when your team members hear it for the first time, it’s either noise…or interesting but not tangible.

The only way through the resistance is straight ahead. Your honesty and authenticity are truly important. Your willingness to engage in a dialogue and your humility in asking for input and help are priceless.

Art Guest Posts at Lead Change, My Next Book & Other Updates

My Guest Post at Lead Change:

I confess to focusing a great deal recently on the future of leadership. This was evident in my guest post, “The Great and Perilous Leadership Journey Ahead,”at Tanveer Naseer’s site, and in today’s essay, “Leadership Guidance for Our Children.” at the Lead Change site.

The momentary pre-occupation with a future view on leaders and leadership development is driven in part by watching my sons grow up into responsible young men in front of my eyes, as well as from the insights and lessons shared of a number of early career leaders via workshops and classroom settings.

If you’re responsible for the development of others, you’ve got a big job in front of you. Let’s all get it right and we can contribute in our own way to improving the odds for those coming up behind us.

Speaking of Leading Change:

There’s a fascinating new group that is gaining critical mass, called Lead Change. I’m proud to be a participant in the process and to be allied with some of the sharpest and most dedicated leadership professionals (coaches, consultants, writers and those just passionate about the topic).

Lead Change brings together professionals from all walks of life dedicated to the proposition of extending, teaching and reinforcing Character Based Leadership. Without being preachy, this is a group of professionals that stand for The Right Stuff in leading and in developing talent.

The initiative, facilitated by Mike Henry Sr. (@mikehenrysr on twitter)  is spreading and growing. Check out the site, subscribe to the blogs and consider and check out the ways that Mike and team have created for you to get involved and start the networking on character-based leadership.

Happiness, Kind of, Is a Completed First Draft of My Next Book!

The “kind of” part is an acknowledgement that there are some painful, soul-searching hours of tough editing ahead on my latest book, Leadership Caffeine: Ideas to Stimulate Success and Help You Kick A** in Your Career. (OK, the Kick A** part may not make the final cut, but it reflects the passion I have for helping people get an edge.)

Stay tuned for tasteful updates, snippets of the content, and what I expect to be a fun and exciting build-up to the targeted March or April publication.

Oh, and since I’m future oriented, for my next effort, I plan on extending my e-book, Leadership and the Project Manager into a full book, complete with a lot of new content and case studies. The e-book form has been downloaded many thousands of times, and this issue of managing without formal authority, while owning the results for major projects is one that merits a lot more attention. However, one thing at a time. Sort of.

Many, Many New and Great Resource Links on the Sidebar..More New Content Coming:

One of my favorite ways of discovering great thought leaders and inspirational writers is to mine the links/blogroll sections of writers that I enjoy.

It’s funny how sharp and interesting people tend to find other sharp and interesting people to recommend. While stopping short of describing myself as either sharp or interesting, I can assure you that my Links list includes people you absolutely want to know.  I’ve refreshed the listing considerably and will be attacking my book recommendations and many others over the holidays.

If you know someone that you believe others would benefit from in the areas of management, leadership, marketing, drop me a note or leave a comment with your suggestion!

OK, it’s time to quit writing. I’ve got a son to retrieve from college for winter break. Back soon! -Art

Don’t Be Naive When It Comes to Driving Change

There are ample reasons for organizations to change business processes and business practices in this fast moving and complex environment. The market drivers are strong, the business justification is clear and often, ideas on how and where to change are clearly visible to some inside organizations.

It’s too bad that most change management initiatives fail, in spite of the best of intentions. With a bit of advance warning and some darned hard work however, you may be able to avoid the fate of so many that have come before you.

Learn to ask yourself some core questions and keep asking these questions and you might just put one in the win column.

At Least 8 Questions to Keep Asking Yourself as You Drive Your Change Initiative:

1. Why is this change so important? What’s important to you isn’t necessarily important to others. In fact, it might be viewed as adverse to others. Your change is likely interpreted as an indictment or even an accusation by some of your colleagues.  Their very human reaction is, “if we need to change in my area, then you’re saying that I did a lousy job.” It’s easy to inadvertently corner people in this situation, and you can bet that they will fight back in some form or fashion. Beware of positive head nods from people hiding daggers behind their backs.

2. Are you being heard over the noise? There’s a great deal of environmental noise about what the firm should do at any point in time. Why should anyone listen?

3. Are the connections clear? Can you connect your change ideas to market forces, specific customers, competitive differentiators and ultimately, a clear path to create value for the firm and other stakeholders?

4. Are you experiencing a power shortage? Those with the power drive the change.  Learn to grow power and influence and when it comes to promote change, life is easier. Not easy, but easier. (See: The Noble Pursuit of Power and Influence)

5. Is your message muddled? Building the case for your view on change requires relentless selling supported by crystal clear and compelling messaging. (See my post on Message Mapping)

6. Are you building a case for WIIFM with your stakeholders? The “What’s In it for Me?” other than more work, big headaches, and a possible loss of influence is a very real question that everyone is thinking about as you’re talking with them.

7. Are you getting the right kind of P.R.? Are you leveraging early successes to build excitement? Nothing attracts attention like success, except failure.

8. Are you walking and asking and listening? Building change momentum requires shuttle diplomacy. Keep moving. Spend more time with your enemies and adversaries than you do your allies. Use your allies to engage your adversaries. Always engage with respect.

The Bottom-Line for Now:

Driving change is fun, frustrating, complex, confounding, rewarding, costly and often chaotic all at the same time. The best “change managers” that I’ve observed have a keen appreciation for the complex human factors involved in introducing, catalyzing and sustaining positive change. The idea may be sheer genius, but, unless you engage the hearts (first) and brains (second) of your constituents, you are at risk of joining the super majority of failed initiatives.

-Related Posts:

Management Innovation in the Trenches (at my Toolbox for HR Blog)

Leadership Caffeine: The Noble Pursuit of Power and Influence

The Career Enhancing Benefits of Message Mapping

Beware Context Canyon When It Comes to Leading Change

Don't Fall Off the CliffWe invest a great deal of time talking and writing and preaching about change.  We discuss resistance to change, fear of change, our own need for personal change and the challenges that organizations face when it comes to embracing change.

We’re not very good at changing, but we sure like to talk about it.

Spend a few sleepless nights channel surfing the infomercials (a discomfiting experience in more ways than one), and you’ll realize that there’s a tremendous amount of energy that goes into selling us stuff to help us change in all area of our lives.

In my non-scientific polling and personal leadership anthropological meanderings, I’m comfortable generalizing that most change initiatives fail. From diets and fitness programs to resolutions and new corporate directions, failure to change is epidemic.

While I suspect that our failure to change our own individual habits is a close cousin to change failures in business, I’ll focus on the latter here.

We Create Our Own Context Canyons:

Most managers and management teams spend a great deal of time processing on the drivers of change.  By the time they start discussing or announcing changes, the issues and often the approaches are well-baked in their minds, while the rest of us on the receiving end are left with the deep thoughts of, “Huh?” or, “Why?” or, “Huh?”

The result is a gaping hole that I call the “Context Canyon” between managers suggesting change and employees processing on the implications of change. Depending upon the culture, resistance will range from loud and overt to quiet and passively aggressive.  Nonetheless, resistance will reign supreme until the “Context Canyon” is filled-in not just by the managers, but also by the rest of the organization taking the time to internalize the case for change.

5 Common-Sense Ideas to Help with Change:

1. Recognize the Context Canyon.  You and your peers may have worked through the case for change for months.  You’ve had time to process on the rationale and think through and even debate options and alternatives.  Mentally, you’ve long since accepted the need to change.  Remember that if the first time that your employees hear about the change is when you announce it, they are just starting their mental processing journey.  Your springing it on them has put them on the defensive from the beginning.

2. Involve People in Change Discussion Early and Often.  People typically want to contribute to the discussions on change.  They want to do their part to facilitate changes that will better serve customers and improve value for stakeholders.  Treat them as an extended team of advisors.  You show remarkable leadership courage and you show your respect for your employees by engaging them up-front on discussions about change.

3. Get the Why? Right! Again, beware the Context Canyon.  People might hear your rationale on Why change is required, but that does not mean that they agree with your logic and your case.  A pronouncement from on high typically does not equate to agreement or acceptance.  Create safe opportunities for individuals and teams to ask questions, offer their thoughts and process on the case for change.

4. Ask for Help on the What? After awhile, the discussions on “Why Change?” need to move towards “What to do?”  You’ll gain stronger organizational support by inviting and listening to active input, than you will dictating changes.  Additionally, the shift in discussion from “Why?” to “What?” actually serves to strengthen the case for change. Remember, your organization requires the same amount of time that you do to process-on and internalize the case.

5. Address the WIIFM.  Don’t fool yourself. People might be expressing concern about the organization, but everyone is thinking about, “What’s In it for Me?” (The less selfish sounding version is: “What does this mean for me in my job?”) This is the 600-pound gorilla on the back of the elephant in the room.  The more time that you put into spanning Context Canyon, and the more that you allow your employees to help you “design the way forward,” the easier it is to deal with WIIFM.  Your willingness to allow people to define how they have to change puts a great deal of individual and organizational angst to rest.

The Bottom-Line for Now:

While watching the various infomercials and pitch-people offering all manner of goods to improve our lives in the kitchen, the bedroom and the bank account, it occurred to me that we needed an offering to help us successfully navigate changes in our organizations and jobs.  For only three installments of $39.95, I’ll help you navigate Context Canyon.  And for the first 20 organizations to order, I’ll throw in the knife set.

There are no silver bullets or magic products that promote change.  Use good old-fashioned common-sense based on human psychology.  Context is King and involvement promotes engagement.

Improving Your Odds of Success in Driving Change

There is a fascinating article on Change Management in a recent issue (Issue 2/2009) of the McKinsey Quarterly (subscription required) by Carolyn Aiken and Scott Keller, entitled: “The Irrational Side of Change Management.” 

And while much has been written over the years on this important and vexing topic, the authors offer some insights and ideas that they describe as counter-intuitive, but potentially helpful in improving your odds of success with these initiatives.  This article alone was for me worth the hefty annual subscription price.

On a depressing, but not surprising note, the article cites a 2008 study of over 3,000 executives that found that 1 in 3 change-management initiatives fail. These low success rates have been well documented by Kotter as well as other researchers in the field of change management.

Art’s Observations on the Failure Rate: We all know that most change management initiatives fail miserably.  Recall your own reaction to the latest program or makeover handed down from on high.  The majority are met with emotions ranging from curiosity to outright cynicism.  On the other hand, think of the rare initiative that stuck.  Why did this one work?  My unscientific guess is that the leaders worked hard to create an environment ripe for change. 

The authors cite the 4 basic conditions necessary for change according to the theories around the psychology of change management:

  1. A compelling story-employees must see the point and agree
  2. Role modeling-employees must see management and other colleagues behaving in the new way.
  3. Reinforcing mechanisms-systems, processes and incentives must be in line with the new behavior
  4. Capability building-employees must have the skills required to make desired changes

Their thoughts on how these 4 conditions are applied:The prescription is right, but rational managers who attempt to put the four conditions in place by applying common sense typically misdirect time and energy, create messages that miss the mark, and experience frustrating and unintended consequences from their efforts to influence change.”

The authors go on to share nine insights into application of the 4 conditions that explain why change initiatives might fail and how to improve the odds. My focus in this post is on two of the insights related to the “compelling story” condition for change. 

First: “What motivates you doesn’t motivate most of your employees.” 

While we tend to focus on telling stories about what has changed and why we have to change in kind, or what we want to accomplish, research shows that people respond best to stories that address five forms of impact:

  • Impact on society
  • Impact on the customer
  • Impact on the company
  • Impact on the working team (environment)
  • Impact on “me”

The money quote here: “This finding has profound implications for leaders. What the leader cares about (and typically bases at least 80 percent of his or her message to others on) does not tap into roughly 80 percent of the workforce’s primary motivators for putting extra energy into the change program. Change leaders need to be able to tell a change story that covers all five things that motivate employees.”

Second: “You’re better off letting them write their own story.”

We as executives and leaders go to great lengths to tell our change stories.  We call special meetings, conduct town halls, run webinars, write blog posts and often walk away feeling like we’ve done our job.  We’ve spoken, the message is clear and everyone must agree or we’ll single them out as resistors. 

The authors suggest that while the stories about the need to change (told in ways that address the five forms of impact) have to get out there, we would be better off listening more and telling less. 

“This reveals something about human nature: when we choose for ourselves, we are far more committed to the outcome (almost by a factor of five to one). Conventional approaches to change management underestimate this impact. The rational thinker sees it as a waste of time to let others discover for themselves what he or she already knows—why not just tell them and be done with it? Unfortunately this approach steals from others the energy needed to drive change that comes through a sense of ownership of the answer.”

 Art’s Observations:  While there is much more to the article than I am highlighting here, just the lessons from the first two points alone are worth the price of admission.  My robust translation of these points includes:

  • Leaders, you’re going to have to recognize that just because you say that we need to change doesn’t make it so.  Frankly, there are a lot of reasons why people will distrust or ignore your calls for change.  If you don’t carry leadership credibility (beyond the title), you are likely spewing hot air.
  • I love linking the 5 Impact points to the story-telling process on why change is needed.  Several of these are very personal and as the authors highlight, those things that we choose and value for ourselves are much more powerful than those given to us. 
  • Last and not least, the idea of setting the stage and then shutting up and letting people ferret out for themselves why change is needed and what it means is something you can put in place today.  Quit talking, start listening and if you do have to talk, mind your Questions to Comments ratio.

The Bottom-Line for Now:

Like so many things in leading and managing, there are no silver bullets for success. A lot of really smart people try and drive change and fail.  Those that succeed seem to have intuited that change is intensely personal and that their role is to create an environment where the need for change can be processed and where individuals can take control of defining the terms of change.  While it seems that just when the leader thinks that he/she should be hands on, is precisely the time when he/she should step back and let go. 

More soon on this compelling topic.